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Trust God but Keep Your Powder Dry

“For nothing is impossible with God.”1

D. K., in responding to a Daily Encounter in which I said that we need to be realistic and not underestimate what God can do through us, responded by saying, “The Bible reveals that nothing is impossible with God. If he chooses to do through us things that are far beyond our imagination or faith, he is sovereign and can do those things. So don’t you mean, ‘let’s not underestimate what God WILL do through us?’”

D. K. continues, “But, of course, I understand your point and in this regard I have used an illustration from my years of working in the Great Sahara Desert in North Africa. There are about a half-dozen types of sand there and each affects the driving of a vehicle differently. Power steering is necessary, especially on the larger trucks. If we spot an area of soft sand ahead and need to change the direction of the truck to avoid getting stuck, we can turn the steering wheel with one finger.

“However, it isn’t the power of our finger that changes the direction we are going, but rather it is the power steering. And yet we can’t sit back in the seat of the cab and expect the power steering in and of itself to move the big wheels in the right direction. We need to put forth our hand and grab the wheel and turn it. Similarly, with our lives, we can’t change the direction we are going (even if we see the dangers ahead) by sitting back and expecting God’s ‘power steering’ to alter our course. We must reach out and grab the wheel and turn! But it’s God’s power that alters the course.”

Good point. Of this we can be certain, whenever we fulfill our responsibility and do our part, God will always do his part. Or as George Washington once said to his soldiers who were about the cross the Potomac River, “Trust God but keep your powder [rifles] dry.”

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, thank you for your Holy Spirit which empowers me to live my life in harmony with your will. Help me always to depend on your power and not try to live for or serve you in my own strength. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. Luke 1:37 (NIV).

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Conquering What?

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”1

Stephen Muncherian, in his sermon, “Oh, For One Good Lawyer” told about former heavy-weight boxer, James “Quick” Tillis, a cowboy from Tulsa, Oklahoma, who fought out of Chicago in the early 1980s. Tillis recalls how, on his first day in Chicago, after getting off the bus, he stood outside the Sears building and, putting his two suitcases down, looked up at the Tower and said to himself, “I’m going to conquer Chicago.” When he looked down, his two suitcases were missing!2

That’s Chicago! Having lived there when I went to college and looked up at and been to the top of the Sears Tower, I can empathize with Tillis.

We can be confident, excited, and positive one moment and be disillusioned the next. That’s life. We live in a broken, sinful world and disappointments come to us all. We put our trust in people and get ripped off. We get hurt deeply when someone we love turns against and attacks us. We get our hearts broken when we are abandoned, rejected, or have lost a loved one through death.

Pain comes to us all. The important thing is that we don’t allow these circumstances to make us resentful and bitter. God wants to use these situations to help us grow and make us better persons. Satan wants to use them to discourage us and make us bitter. Indeed, the negative circumstances of life can make us bitter or better. The choice is ours.

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, no matter what happens to me help me always to remember that while it rains on the just as well as the unjust my life is ultimately in your hands, and that all things do work together for good to those who love and put their trust in you. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. Romans 8:28 (NIV).

2. Adapted from the sermon, “Oh, For One Good Lawyer!” by Rev. Stephen Muncherian. Cited on www.spiritofgracefellowship.org.

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Believing Our Own Lies

“We have renounced secret and shameful ways; we do not use deception, nor do we distort the word of God. On the contrary, by setting forth the truth plainly we commend ourselves to every man’s conscience in the sight of God.”1

“In 1970 a pregnant, unmarried woman sought to have the Texas anti-abortion statute, first enacted in the 1850s, declared unconstitutional. To protect her anonymity she was given the fictitious name Jane Roe. The initial action was against Henry Wade, District Attorney of Dallas County, Texas. Roe claimed that the statute was unconstitutionally vague and violated her right of privacy as guaranteed by the First, Fourth, Fifth, Ninth, and Fourteenth Amendments. The case was argued before the Supreme Court in December of 1971, re-argued in October of 1972. In January of 1973 the case was decided by the U.S. Supreme Court. A majority of 7 to 2 declared the Texas statute unconstitutional.”

Since then millions of unborn children have been aborted and we have descended all the way to accepting barbarian, murderous partial-birth abortion—at least it has been accepted and approved by some politicians, liberal judges, and far too many so-called progressive thinkers (who should in reality be called regressive thinkers).

I’m certainly thankful that abortion wasn’t legal when my mother was carrying me. And how about all those who are in favor of abortion? Did they want their mother to have freedom of choice when they were in her womb?

The point I’m making here is that if we distort the truth and keep repeating and promoting it for long enough, eventually it becomes more and more acceptable and we end up believing our own and others’ lies. It’s happened with abortion (which we now justify by calling it freedom of choice), and with homosexuality (which we name an alternate lifestyle). The promoters of gay marriage (which is so diametrically opposed to nature not to mention God’s design) know how this principle works, so we can be sure that they will continue to keep pushing, glorifying, dressing up and promoting gay marriage until it is eventually more widely accepted and believed in by the masses.

Unless we who call ourselves Christians—who are to be the salt of the earth—make a solid stand for truth and stand against those who distort God’s Word, little by little, like the frog in the kettle we will eventually boil ourselves to death. As I’ve been saying this week, the more dishonest we are, the more we will distort all other truth, including God’s truth, to make it say exactly what we want it to say. For the sake of our children and our children’s children, let us all take a stand for truth.

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, again I pray that you will help me to be real and personally honest, to understand exactly what your Word says and teaches, and abide always by your truth even when it means swimming against the tide of the so-called politically correct masses. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

P.S. Jane Roe is anonymous no more. Norma McCorvey no longer supports abortion rights, and has a pro-life ministry at http://www.roenomore.org/.

1. 2 Corinthians 4:2 (NIV).

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Communication: Key to Effective Relationships Part II

“Above all, my brothers, do not swear—not by heaven or by earth or by anything else. Let your ‘Yes’ be yes, and your ‘No,’ no, or you will be condemned.”1

If you are a parent, I’m sure you have noticed the profound difference in the response when you call your kids on a hot day to tend to their chores or call them to come in for their favorite cold drink and a chocolate ice cream!

We adults aren’t that much different … a little more subtle perhaps, but as the communicators remind us we all pretty much hear only what we want to hear and see only what we want to see. To complicate matters even more, because of selective distortion, we see things the way we want to see them. That is, we see things not the way they are but the way we are.

Selective distortion means that we distort messages to make them match our values and/or perception of reality. For example, the more dishonest I am with my inner self (my true emotions and motives), the more I will distort all messages to make them match my values and/or perception of reality. I will even distort God’s Word to make it say what I want it to say.

In other words we all see what we want to see, hear what we want to hear, see things the way we want to see them, distort them to make them match our perception of reality, and finally, because of selective retention, we remember only those things we want to remember—everything else is conveniently forgotten.

These dynamics happen not only in political races, but also at every level of society and affect all our relationships. While political campaigns fortunately pass, relationships are with us forever.

For effective relationships effective communication is vital. This includes avoiding the distortion of reality and speaking the truth truthfully as well as listening without distorting what we are hearing.

There are many words of advice one could give regarding how to communicate effectively, but the bottom line is this: be real! For instance, the more unreal or in denial I am (the more repressed and dishonest with my true emotions and motives), the more I will distort all facts, messages, and communications to make them match my perception of reality. On the other hand, the more real, honest, and truthful I am, the clearer I will see all other truth, including God’s truth, and the less I will distort these.

The fact remains, without access to the truth—including one’s own inner truth—there are no authentic relationships and no effective communications.

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, please help me to be real and always honest with my true emotions and motives. And please deliver me from any form of distortion when listening to others and in all that I say. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. James 5:12 (NIV).

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Communication: Key to Effective Relationships Part I

“Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ.”1

“Hey, Dad, what do you think of that?” asked one of my sons on one occasion when I was driving him to school.

“What do I think of what?” I asked as I had no idea what he was talking about.

“That ad on the radio,” he replied rather surprised.

The radio was at a reasonable volume but I didn’t hear a word the advertiser said. Why? It’s because we all have what communicators call a mental filter system. In other words we have a tendency to hear only what we want to hear and filter (or block) out everything else. This is called “selective attention.”

This is only one reason why relationships can be so difficult … too often we don’t listen to what the other person is saying and hear only what we want to hear. This can leave partners very frustrated. “I said such and such,” one says and the other replies, “No, you didn’t.” “Yes, I did.” “No you didn’t.” And the self-defeating cycle continues.

Not only do we have selective attention, we also have selective exposure in that we mostly expose ourselves only to those things we want to see and hear. Like the wife who leaves the book, Seven Ways to Fulfill Your Wife’s Needs, on the TV hoping her husband will read it! Chances are he won’t see it, let alone pick it up and read it.

To make matters worse, another filter we use is selective perception which means that we perceive or see things the way we want to see them—often based on our needs, interests, wants, or self-concept. For instance, the man dying of thirst in the desert sees mirages of desert springs. Or if I have a poor self-image and you give me a compliment, I will think you are lying or wanting something.

To be concluded …

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, please help me to be always truthful, not only with you, but also with myself and others, and always speak and communicate the truth in love. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. Ephesians 4:15 (NIV).

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Look Where You’re Going

“Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith….”1

I was amused at the story our now “middle-aged” pastor recently told about himself when trying to learn surfing a few short years ago. He had a difficult time “getting it” and, according to his own confession, still hasn’t mastered the art of successful surfing.

I could identify with him in my trying to learn snow skiing later in life. I never fully mastered the art either … my biggest problem was trying to turn. On one occasion I skied right into the back of one of my skiing buddies because I couldn’t turn quick enough to get out of the way. On another occasion somehow I collided with a lady skier and we got locked together with her facing forwards and me facing backwards as we continued skiing down the slope totally out of control until we crashed. Sprawled out on the snow I couldn’t resist making the comment, “We’ve got to stop meeting this way!” Fortunately neither one of us was hurt.

The big lesson I needed to learn, like the lesson my pastor was taught, “You always go where you are looking so keep looking toward where you want to go—not to where you don’t want to go!”

That’s a great lesson regarding most aspects of life too. If we fix our eyes only on the pleasures and benefits this world has to offer, that’s the direction our life will take and, while we might gain great material wealth, we will end up becoming spiritually bankrupt—morally bankrupt too if all we look for is the sinful pleasures this life has to offer in abundance.

On the other hand, if we commit our life to and fix our eyes on spiritual and eternal values, that’s the direction our life will take—and the rewards will be eternal, for we always reap what we sow, even if it is eventually!

As today’s Scripture lesson teaches: “Let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith.”

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, please help me to live with eternal values in view, looking always unto Jesus for help and direction in every aspect of my life. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. Hebrews 12:1-2 (NKJV).

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On Being a Positive Realist

As the Bible says, “As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.”1

For successful living it is important not only to have a positive attitude and to think positively but, equally important, to be a positive realist.

For example, I have read how Admiral Jim Stockdale was repeatedly tortured during eight years as a prisoner of war in Hanoi during the Vietnam War—and survived.

Strange as it may at first seem, “In an interview with author Jim Collins, Admiral Stockdale commented that the optimists were the ones who were least likely to survive the camps. They refused to accept reality. They kept predicting that they would be freed soon. And every time their predictions failed, they lost a little more hope, until one day the optimists died of broken hearts. They had great attitudes, but they failed to deal realistically with their situation. Stockdale remarked, ‘You must never confuse faith that you will prevail in the end—which you can never afford to lose—with the discipline to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.’”2

To express it another way, if you’ve been hit by a “Mack truck,” all the optimism and positive thinking in and of itself won’t take the pain away. One needs to be a positive realist who says to him/herself, “Yes, I’ve been hit by a massive problem. I’ve been hurt badly and am in deep pain. However, with God’s help and any other help I need, I will do everything in my power to overcome my circumstances and survive triumphantly.

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, help me to be a positive realist with great faith in you knowing that no matter what happens to me, you always have a lesson for me to learn and always want to use my circumstances to help me grow and become strong in faith and character. Also, please help me to see and accept my responsibility and the part I need to play in overcoming my difficulties and adverse circumstances. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. Proverbs 23:7.

2. Jim Collins, “Good to Great” (New York: Harper Business, 2001), pp. 83-85. Cited on www.sermons.com.

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An Interesting Funeral

“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”1

Some time ago, a teacher in Decatur, Georgia, taught her fourth-grade students an invaluable lesson by conducting a funeral. She enthused her class because the funeral was to be conducted for an enemy—the “I can’t” enemy.

“Each child was encouraged to list their ‘I Can’ts’: ‘I can’t do math.’ ‘I can’t make any friends.’ ‘I can’t hit a home run in softball.’ ‘I can’t give a book report in front of the class,’” and so on.

When the teacher collected all the “I can’t” lists, she put them in a box and took them with the class outside where they took turns in digging a grave. In her eulogy she said, “We have provided ‘I Can’t’ with a final resting place and a headstone that contains his epitaph. He is survived by his brothers and sisters, ‘I Can,’ ‘I Will,’ and ‘I’m Going to Right Away.’ May ‘I Can’t’ rest in peace and may everyone present pick up their lives and move forward in his absence.”2

Golfer Arnold Palmer has won hundreds of trophies but apparently he never flaunts these. On his office wall is a lone framed plaque which reads:

If you think you are beaten, you are.
If you think you dare not, you don’t.
If you’d like to win but think you can’t, it’s almost certain you won’t. Life’s battles don’t always go to the stronger or faster man, But sooner or later, the man who wins is the man who thinks he can.

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, thank you for the abilities you have given to me. Help me to acknowledge what these are, and believe in my heart that as long as I am living in harmony with your will, I can do everything you have enabled me to do. Please deliver me from the sin of disbelief not only in you but also in myself. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. Philippians 4:13 (NKJV).

2. Phillip B. Childs, “The I Can’t Funeral,” North Texas United Methodist Reporter, January 22, 1999. Cited on www.sermons.com.

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Life’s Little Frustrations

“Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything; tell God your needs and don’t forget to thank him for his answers. If you do this you will experience God’s peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand.”1

Paul Dickson discovered that the size of the cut he inflicted on himself while shaving was directly proportionate to the importance of the event for which he was shaving. That led him to an interest in other “universal laws” evident in daily life. The following are a few of the many he has collected:

“No books you lend are lost except those you particularly want to keep.” “There are three ways to get something done: do it yourself; hire someone; or tell your kids not to do it.” “You can throw a burnt match out of the window of your car and start a forest fire easier than you can start one under dry logs in your fireplace with a box of matches and the complete edition of the Sunday newspaper.”

Let’s face it, more often than not, it’s life’s little annoyances that get to us and hit our “frustration” button. As one humorist put it:

It’s the little things that bother us and put us on the rack, you can sit upon a mountain, but you can’t sit on a tack!

And most of us have at least one “frustration” button—by whatever name you call it—which is an area of weakness that God wants us to overcome. As long as I have a “frustration button” that is still active, it’s a reminder that I still have some growing to do so I can get to the place where I quit being frustrated and trust God for everything!

Hmmm …I’m still working on mine … but God hasn’t finished with me yet. Fortunately.

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, thank you that I can bring all my ‘frustrations’ to you. When I do this, please help me to see if there is anything I can do to resolve the problem that is causing my frustration, and then do what I need to do to the best of my ability, and trust the outcome to you so that I will experience peace of mind. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. Philippians 4:6, 7 (TLB)(NLT).

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Facing Backward to Go Forward

“But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.”1

I have read that if flies are placed in a jar with air holes in the lid, they will fly frantically, banging into the lid, desperately trying to escape from their prison. If left there long enough, eventually they will stop hitting the lid. Later, if the lid is removed, they won’t even try to escape.

Some of us are like the flies. Because of a traumatic or painful experience in our past, we have been “conditioned” to believe that we are trapped in a prison of helplessness without escape, so we are afraid to try again for fear of failure or of being hurt again.

To overcome, we need to acknowledge where we have been hurt and, if necessary, get into a recovery program to overcome our painful memories and unresolved feelings.

As Peter said, “So get rid of your feelings of hatred.”2 The same principle applies to all negative feelings—especially the supercharged repressed negative emotions. Repressing or denying these feelings doesn’t get rid of them. It only adds “interest” to them and makes matters worse. Furthermore, we can never truly “get rid of” a negative painful past until we have resolved it. Only then are we truly able to forgive any and all who have ever hurt us. Until we do this, we are still bound to and controlled by our past.

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, please help me to resolve any hurts from the past that are affecting my life in any negative way. And, if necessary, find the help needed to do this, so that I can forgive any and all who have ever hurt me, and in so doing put all these matters behind me, and be free to fully live and fully love and to better serve you. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. Philippians 3:13-14 (NIV).

2. I Peter 2:1 (TLB)(NLT).

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