Attitude of Gratitude

“As he [Jesus] was going into a village, ten men who had leprosy met him. They stood at a distance and called out in a loud voice, ‘Jesus, Master, have pity on us!’ When he saw them, he said, ‘Go, show yourselves to the priests.’ And as they went, they were cleansed. One of them, when he saw he was healed, came back, praising God in a loud voice. He threw himself at Jesus’ feet and thanked him—and he was a Samaritan. Jesus asked, ‘Were not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine?’”1

William Stidger, a Methodist minister, began to think of the blessings he had received during his life. He remembered a special elementary school teacher who had gone out of her way to give him an appreciation for verse. It had been more than 50 years since Stidger had been in her class, but his appreciation for verse had endured since that time. Stidger wrote to his former teacher a letter of appreciation and she replied: “My Dear Willie, I cannot tell you how much your note meant to me. I am in my eighties, living alone in a small room, cooking my own meals, lonely and, like the last leaf of autumn, lingering behind. You will be interested to know that I taught in school for fifty years and yours is the first note of appreciation I ever received.”2

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, please give me a grateful heart and a thankful spirit, so that I will always give and express credit where credit is due, thanks where thanks is due, and appreciation where appreciation is due. And above all, give me a thankful heart for the countless blessings you have given so freely to me and especially for your gift of salvation and a home in Heaven to be with you forever. Help me to so live that my life will be a living expression of gratitude for all that you have done for me. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. Luke 17:12-17 (NIV).

2. From Pastor Ron Clarke, Tasmania, Australia.

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Fire on One End, Fool on the Other

“Do not merely listen to the word [God's Word, the Bible], and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like.”1

In his Sermon: “Didn’t You Hear What I Said?” Julian Gordy shared how, when he was in high school, “A physician came to talk to us about the dangers of smoking. He scared us with his grim pictures of smokers’ lungs and tales of death from lung cancer. The doctor finished his speech by saying, ‘Remember, fire on one end, fool on the other.’

“We were all impressed, especially those boys who would sneak out behind the shop building at lunch to light one up. But a couple of the guys saw the doctor himself lighting up when he got back in his car after the lecture. And his credibility was shot. He was the talk of the campus. It would have been better for the no-smoking campaign if he had never come to speak. Saying one thing and doing another is something nobody respects.”

Reminds me of the quote that goes something like, “Your actions speak so loudly I cannot hear what you say.”

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, please help me to so live that my life will always be a living example of integrity in that the life I live will be in harmony with what I believe and what I say. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. James 1:22-24 (NIV).

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Choose Happiness

“I [the Apostle Paul] have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.”1

In a Peanuts cartoon Lucy asks Charlie Brown, “Why do you think we were put on earth?”

Charlie answers, “To make others happy.”

Lucy replies: “I don’t think I’m making anyone happy,” and then adds, “But, nobody’s making me very happy either. Somebody’s not doing his job!”

I know this may sound simplistic but in a very real sense happiness is a choice. Too many people in our Hollywood-crazed way of thinking expect other people to make them happy. People talk about finding the right partner to marry which is all back to front. To find the right partner we need to be the right partner. The fact is that only happy partners make happy marriages, and the only person who can ever make us happy is one’s self.

Furthermore, happiness and/or contentment is not only a choice, it is a decision, a commitment to action and to personal honesty that requires a good hard, honest look at ourselves, and then a whole lot of hard work to resolve all the things in our lives that hinder happiness and/or make us unhappy.

The starting point for finding happiness and contentment is by making up your mind that you will no longer look to anyone else to make you happy; that no matter what, you will accept responsibility for doing what you need to do to find happiness; and above all, by learning to pray the right prayer such as the following:

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, please confront me with the truth about me—no matter how much it hurts—and reveal to me any and every unresolved issue in my life that is hindering my finding contentment and lasting happiness—whether the problem be emotional, spiritual and/or physical. And please lead me to the help I need to overcome. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. Philippians 4:11-12 (NIV).

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Feelings

“Surely you desire truth in the inner parts; you teach me wisdom in the inmost place.”1

Some years ago I recall visiting the Moody Institute of Science and putting on a special pair of eye lenses which turned everything upside down. It was a weird feeling. Dr. Moon, the director of the institute, in an experiment wore these special lenses for something like 2-3 weeks (if I remember correctly) without opening his eyes without these funny looking lenses. He wore black eye patches when he went to bed to sleep.

When he stopped using these special lenses, an amazing thing had happened, his brain had made a radical switch, and now everything he saw was upside down. It took 2-3 weeks for his vision to come back to normal.

In a broader sense, life is like that: if I consistently do wrong when I know better, and don’t live the life I believe to be right, my mind will in time (be it ever so slowly) do a radical switch and I will end up unhappily believing the life I am living to be right. I will cut off my feelings, justify my behavior, and end up with what the Bible calls a dead conscience—a dangerous path to follow.

One could rightfully call this spiritual leprosy of the soul. It is commonly thought that leprosy causes a stricken individual to lose body parts. What happens is that leprosy causes the loss of physical sensitivity and feeling. Lepers lose fingers, toes and feet because they no longer feel pain to protect their wounded limbs and eventually body tissues are damaged beyond repair.

When we deny our true feelings and deaden our conscience, we no longer feel the pain of guilt or godly sorrow. In so doing we distance ourselves from God and are no longer aware of our need for his forgiveness or our need for his gift of eternal life. Deadening our conscience is a deadly way to live—and extremely deadly for eternity.

The only way back is the path of truth. That is, to admit to ourselves what we have done regardless of how we feel or no longer feel, confess our sinfulness to God, ask for his forgiveness, believe that God gave his Son, Jesus, to pay the penalty for all our sins, and accept Jesus as our Savior.

For further help, be sure to read the article, “How to Be Sure You’re a Real Christian” at: www.actsweb.org/articles.

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, please confront me with the truth about me. Help me to see any and every area in my life where I have denied the truth and hidden any sins and faults so that I can come to you, confess my sins, and ask for and receive your forgiveness and the gift of eternal life. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. Psalm 51:6 (NIV).

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Blow Upon Blow

“But no man can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers, this should not be.”1

Jim Rohn says, “You can cut down a tree with a hammer, but it takes about 30 days. If you trade the hammer for an ax, you can cut it down in about 30 minutes. The difference between 30 days and 30 minutes is skills.”2

You could also put it this way: You can cut down a tree with an ax in about 30 minutes, with a chain saw in about five—so having the right tools for the job is a big help too!

On the other hand, it may take 30 years or more to replace that tree. So we need to be extremely careful before we start cutting down anything of value as we may never be able to replace it. Like blow upon blow of a sharp axe, blow upon blow of cutting words can hurt deeply, ruin a marriage, severely damage a friendship, and destroy the self-concept of a child!

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, grant that my speech and my conversation will always be seasoned with grace and truth, and never be used to chop down anyone. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully in Jesus’ name. Amen.”

1. James 3:8-10 (NIV).

2. Cited on “Quotes From the Masters.”

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Be Angry—Sin Not

“In your anger do not sin.”1

In one church where I was teaching I stated that it was okay to be angry. One lady was absolutely amazed. She could hardly believe her ears. She told me that she had been taught all her life that Christians never get angry. So she had reasoned in her mind: “Christians never get angry. I’m always angry. Therefore I can never be a Christian!”

That night she was freed from 20 years of anguish and received assurance of her salvation. She was indeed a Christian because she had received Jesus as her Savior. But she had never understood that anger is amoral; that is, of itself it is neither right nor wrong. It’s what we do with it and how we handle it that matters. The Bible actually teaches, “Be angry—sin not.”

Anger itself (not rage, hostility, or bitterness) is a God-given emotion. Its purpose is to fight evil and right wrongs—to bring about change for good where change is needed. This is how Florence Nightingale used her anger. She was angry at the way wounded soldiers were being treated, or rather, being mistreated, so she did something about it. We are meant to use our anger in the same way.

The reality is that everybody gets angry at one time or another. Some people bury and deny theirs while others lash out and hurt others. Neither of these is healthy, right, nor Christian.

When expressing anger, we need to own it as our own, and remember that the biblical principle is to speak the truth in love. One way to do this is to say something like, “I know my feelings are my responsibility, but I feel angry and need to talk to you about such and such.”

Never say to a person, “You make me angry” This is because nobody can make me angry without my permission. All others can do is trigger my anger, but the anger is mine. And it is always my responsibility to handle and express it in helpful and not in hurtful ways.

Unfortunately, however, when we have a lot of bottled-up anger or anger from the past that has never been faced and resolved, our “anger button” can get triggered very easily and we then overreact. What the other person does to me is their issue; how I feel and react is always my issue and my responsibility. To the degree that I overreact that is always my problem.

One of the great needs (at least in our Western society) is to learn to identify our feelings—positive and negative—to be honest about them, and learn how to handle them in creative, rather than destructive, ways. Until we do this, we have little chance of developing wholesome and intimate relationships.

As the Bible teaches, “If you are angry, don’t sin by nursing your grudge. Don’t let the sun go down with you still angry—get over it quickly, for when you are angry [and don't resolve it] you give a mighty foothold to the devil.”2

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, thank you for the gift of feelings. Please help me to be in touch with all of mine, be honest with them, and when expressing them, help me to always speak the truth in love.3 Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully in Jesus’ name. Amen.”

For more on anger, click on “Taming Your Anger” at: www.actsweb.org/articles.

1. Ephesians 4:26 (NIV).

2. Ephesians 4:25-27 (TLB), (NLT)

3. Ephesians 4:15 (NIV)

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AAAhhhhhhhhh!

“Don’t be misled. Remember that you can’t ignore God and get away with it. You will always reap what you sow! Those who live only to satisfy their own sinful desires will harvest the consequences of decay and death. But those who live to please the Spirit [of God] will harvest everlasting life from the Spirit.”1

You’ve undoubtedly read about the father and son who were hiking in the mountains, but it stands repeating. You may have had the same experience as they had.

As they were walking along the son falls, hurts himself, and screams: “AAAhhhhhhhhhhh!”

To his surprise, he hears the voice repeating, somewhere in the mountain: “AAAhhhhhhhhhhh!”

Curious, he yells: “Who are you?”

He receives the answer: “Who are you?”

Angered at the response, he screams: “Coward!”

He receives the answer: “Coward!”

He looks to his father and asks: “What’s going on?”

The father smiles and says: “My son, pay attention.” And then he screams to the mountain: “I admire you!”

The voice answers: “I admire you!”

Again the man screams: “You are a champion!”

The voice answers: “You are a champion!”

The boy is surprised, but does not understand.

Then the father explains: “People call this ECHO, but really this is LIFE. It gives you back everything you say or do.

How true this is. Our life is pretty much a reflection of our actions. If you want more love in the world, create more love in your heart. If you want more competence in your team, improve your competence. This relationship applies to everything in all aspects of life—life will give you back everything you have given to it.

Your life is not a coincidence. It is a reflection of you.2

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, help me to always remember that I will reap what I sow, so help me God to sow seeds of love, joy, peace, beauty, kindness, courtesy, and wonder and reap a multiplied harvest of the same. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. Galatians 6:7-8 (NLT).

2. Author Unknown. From the Internet.

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Character Counts

“Epaphras, who is one of yourselves, a servant of Christ Jesus, sends you greetings. [He is] always striving for you earnestly in his prayers, [pleading] that you may [as persons of ripe character and clear conviction] stand firm and mature [in spiritual growth], convinced and fully assured in everything willed by God.”1

A psychologist once noted three tests of a great character: The capacity for great love; the capacity for great enthusiasm; and the capacity for great indignation. To which I would add a fourth: The capacity for great integrity.

First, the capacity for great love. No matter how successful we might be in the eyes of the world or how rich in material possessions, life—without love—is empty and meaningless and chances are that we will die long before our time. It may not be the most desirable, but we can live without romantic love, but we cannot live meaningfully or healthily without at least one loving relationship. Every person needs to know that they are loved, wanted, and needed by at least one other person.

Second, the capacity for great enthusiasm. The word enthusiasm comes from the prefix, “en” meaning “in” and the Greek root, “theos” meaning “God”. In other words, genuine and lasting enthusiasm is that which has its roots en-theos; that is, in God. It has been said that love makes the world go round; but it really is love with enthusiasm that does this and, in turn, achieves the noblest things in life for the benefit of mankind.

Third, the capacity for great indignation. So many ask or wonder how can a God of love become so indignant and angry? If God didn’t become indignant and angry at sin and evil—which is totally destructive of those whom he loves (us) —he wouldn’t be God. He would be some kind of spineless being at best and some kind of a demon at worst. Also, if you and I don’t get indignant and angry at sin and evil, we don’t really care for or love righteousness. It isn’t possible to have one without the other. There are many things in life that we need to get indignant and angry about. In other words, we need to love the things God loves and hate the things that God hates. While God hates sin he loves the sinner. We need to do the same.

And fourth, the capacity for great integrity. Integrity means that we keep our word and do what we say we are going to do, that we have high moral and ethical values and live by them, that we live in harmony with the laws of God and the laws of the land unless to do the latter would defy the laws of God.

I’ve borrowed today’s title, “Character Counts” from Michael Josephson, of Character Counts. However, the character that really counts for both time and eternity is character that has its roots in God.

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, help me to so live that when I come to the end of my journey here on earth it will be said of me, ‘He/she was a man/woman of character whose life reflected the Spirit of Jesus in all that he/she did and said. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. Colossians 4:12 (AMP).

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Selective Attention…

“Do you have eyes but fail to see, and ears but fail to hear? And don’t you remember?”1

The story is told of a man who once bought a new radio, brought it home, and placed it on the refrigerator. He then plugged it in, turned it to WSM in Nashville (home of the Grand Ole Opry), and proceeded to do the most unusual thing. He pulled all the knobs off! He had already tuned in to all he ever wanted or expected to hear, and so he chose to limit his radio reception to one station.

“Most unusual,” we call it. But is it? Really? Many, if not most of us, if we will be honest, do the same thing in principle. Maybe not with our radio but we surely do with our life.

We all have what the communicators call selective exposure, selective attention, selective comprehension or perception, selective distortion, and selective retention. That is, people expose themselves only to messages they want to receive; hear only what they want to hear; perceive or see things the way they want to see them; twist and distort messages to match their preconceived perception of reality; and they remember only what they want to remember. Everything else is filtered or blocked out.

In other words, we hear, see, accept, remember, and apply only that which we want to hear, see, accept, remember and apply. Furthermore we believe only what we want to believe—and for many of us we choose to believe that which is convenient—regardless of its moral or lack of moral value. For instance, people accept abortion on face value because it is convenient. They accept abnormal, immoral sexuality because it, too, is convenient. And they reject God because, more often than not, they don’t want to change their lifestyle and be accountable, much more than for any intellectual reason.

As I’ve said before, if we don’t live the life we believe and know in our heart to be right, we will end up justifying and believing the life we live—a very dangerous, self-deceptive, and self-destructive path to follow.

God’s laws, all of them, are for our safety, protection, and survival. They are as universal as the law of gravity which holds the universe together. We can’t break the law of gravity. If we defy it, it will break us. Or rather, we will break ourselves trying to defy it. It’s the same with God’s moral laws. We can’t break them either. They, too, are universal. If we defy them, it isn’t God who will punish and break us, but rather we will punish and break ourselves trying to defy them. If we used our God-given intellectual reasoning we would understand this. But we don’t reason this way—we reason to find ways to justify what is most convenient for us at any given moment.

How soon we forget that “blessed is the nation [and individual] whose God is the Lord!” And as Jesus said, “Do you have eyes but fail to see, and ears but fail to hear? And don’t you remember?”

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, open my eyes and give me a listening, receptive heart so that I will see, hear, obey and live according to your words of eternal life….Thank you for your words of life and for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. Jesus in Mark 8:18 (NIV).

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Commitment Contradiction Part II

“Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like.”1

Could you imagine what our society would be like in the West if we took away all the churches? And while I am tremendously thankful for all the good work that Christian churches have done—building schools, hospitals, homes for the aged, overseas missions and mission centers for the downtrodden, and numerous other social works—it would appear that, in the average U.S. church today, fewer than 10 percent of the people are doing 90 percent of the work.

Here’s the rub with many of today’s Christians, at least in the United States. As George Barna, well-known research specialist, calls it: “The Commitment Contradiction.”

Following is what Barna’s research found: “One reason why many evangelical churches across the nation are not growing is due to the image that non-Christian adults have of evangelical individuals [Christians]. In a nationwide survey released by the Barna Research Group of Ventura, California, among a representative sample of people who do not consider themselves to be Christian, the image of ‘evangelicals’ rated tenth out of eleven groups evaluated, beating out only prostitutes. Not good.

“Various studies conducted by Barna during 2002 … revealed that less than half of the people who describe themselves as Christian also described themselves as ‘absolutely committed to the Christian faith.’ Less than one out of every ten regular attendees of Christian churches give 10%—a tithe—or more of their income to their church.”2

Tragically, instead of giving God of our first-fruits, most of us who call ourselves Christian give God our leftovers. Giving through tithes and offerings is God’s way to finance his work on earth. If every Christian tithed their income and gave offerings—and invested these wisely in God’s work, God’s work would be done on earth. The hungry would be fed. The homeless would be sheltered. The cold would be clothed. Worldwide missions would flourish—and everyone in the world would be given the gospel.

Furthermore, the average church in America gives only 5% of its income to missions, spending 95% on itself. Certainly we need buildings but I struggle with multi-million dollar sanctuaries that are used only a few hours a week—a practice that very few—if any—secular business could justify.

As Barna also noted, “The persecution delivered by the [9-11] terrorist attacks has produced no increase in spiritual practices, such as attending worship services, reading the Bible, praying, or serving the needy. Giving levels actually decreased last year.”3

With terrorism on the increase throughout the world and the likelihood of it increasing even more, we Christians in America and the West need a Great Spiritual Awakening before it is too late. For eternal vigilance is still the price of freedom.

And while we know that the only hope for any kind of lasting peace in the world is by turning our lives over to the Prince of peace—the Lord Jesus Christ, unless we practice and live what we say we believe, we will not make any significant impact on the non-believing world. Furthermore, we will not stem the tide of evil and terrorism, and we will not help make our world a safer place in which to live for our children or our children’s children.

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, may we Christians in the West and in the U.S. in particular stop taking our incredible freedoms for granted, and never forget that these were bought with a price—the blood of servicemen and women who gave their lives to protect us. And remind us again of how greatly you have blessed us because of the faith of so many of our founding fathers who put their trust in you and gave you reverence and honor. And may we repent of our sins, turn back to you, and become serious about our commitment to you and to our fellow man. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. James 1:22-24 (NIV).

2. Barna Research Online www.barna.org

3. Ibid.

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